Surrender

It took a moment to prepare this proper dialogue. So that we can both see clarity in what a Woman needs a Man to understand of her Loyalty. And a Man needs a woman to acknowledge when he; surrenders. 

I need you to be strong in your feminine thinking to understand why you were not created to change a; man. I need you both to understand not every woman is mentally prepared to stand by your side. Or neither every man has been taught to lead, a woman. Therefore if we both should stay humble and prepared for which "one" of us if not "both" of us. Are mature in our own attitudes to endure. Of a series of “LIFE’S” test. That will challenge the both us in the flesh.

I need the both of us to settle down in a quaint place so that neither one of us walks’ away so easily in our mental thinking space. Because being a woman does not mean we're all put together. Are willing to nurture & understand your concerns as a boy transitioning to this man.  So when you shut down in a space we swear as woman to understand. The line of communication remains open; on both ends.

Time brings “forever” or "temporarily" of situations together. And just because we cross paths on one journey in this life. It does not mean it's the end are beginning to our final destiny. Therefore allow our understandings to grow in "for every woman who is not always aware of “what it takes and how to give of not just herself ”.  And not every man is prepared to accept maturity takes time. And  patience in every single body. 

 “LIFE” is filled with test. And the bloodlines of our children either will keep us together. if mature us to reevaluate our own behaviors. The lesson to learn is from one another. What sacrifices have to be made. But with logic and  reasoning we both can build respect. To accept whether we choose to stay, are walk away. 

A woman’s loyalty is tested when her man finds himself on that mental island alone. and if this woman does not communicate effectively & recognize what is missing in the relationship. Are even in herself. The effort & attention will diminish without a complete understanding.        

A man’s loyalty is tried when he has managed to rise up beyond his concerns. Or takes from another resource to fix what remains unappreciated & broken. It goes both ways "men & woman". And the reason for this statement is how we use the expression of love & action. In loyalty. Without accounting for who holds their own ownership in accountability. 

Therefore women & men remember the “TEST”. In order to forgive each other. we must learn to first; forgive ourselves.  Not every man or woman is the same. Are is every relationship, perfect.


A changed man or woman is driven by their own internal vision of a new purpose. So we both either learn; how to live together. If not live a life apart searching.