ROCKY MOUNTAINS

The struggle is real for this entire world.

It has been said that believers in the “Christian faith” struggles are extreme. There is still tenacity in human expressions; because of how the African American people were treated and still affected. But has life not proven to us enough; in the struggles that are real within ourselves of every faith around the entire world?  

When people communicate in any language we can relate to; HUMAN animation, tone and pitch, body language in every point and statement, and explanations of our deliverance.                                          DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

So the question is how did we even come to format the idea that Christianity or being Human with needs in any race; SEPARATES us from our real struggles we fight internally, in a life with changing adversity.                                                                                                                                                           DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

A young man said to me: do you have moment to listen closely. I said please proceed and be wise in the Point and or Statement you’re attempting to deliver across because time is an element we can’t rewind back. The young man proceeded to say; there is nothing new that one human being in this life; has not done under the sun.                                                                                                                                DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

I replied to the young man “please continue” to express the information you have the desire to share. Of what has been compiled in your head.

The young man said I was not born with all the universal answers. I was not given the option to choose who I would love in circumstances. I was appointed to my family who would in return mold me. To receive the power I possess mentally. But not until I was groomed in a space of non-cluttered and enslaved, Thinking .                                                     .                                                                            DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

I said young man now that you have figured out your inner peace; you have learned to see and appreciate life and people with more clarity. The catch is not to always figure out what is not being understood. But when making a Point or a Statement deliver it in confidence

    DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

I place my self in a position of  opportunity and conversation. Only to meet a former member of a Cult religion. And what I walked away with is that; any human being can change. So therefore it may require some time for an individual to figure out in themselves; why.  

Even if your heart and works have good intentions. Be prepared to except that Not everyone person is seeking some form of compassion & understanding. Just ensure you can stand on solid ground of what you believe in. Now DO YOU GET WHAT I’M SAYING?

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Domestic Violence II

We're only bent, not broken in our struggles.   

Since the first blog I tagged on Domestic Violence. I took some time to not so much understand why it has to happen. But what can be done “in support” of to end the ongoing violence.   

It does not matter what age we are, female or male “domestic violence and abuse occurs even in the tiniest of youth” around this entire world. Unfortunately society is filled with distractions. And the abuse repeats in our own homes where some will loose their will to make one move.

So the question is how does abuse gain trust? How frequent are material things involved. And how can a person find refuge even in children? Why are there not more resources in a growing population of human beings; with substance abuse, chemical imbalances and lost in hope to reason?

The abuser preys on trust. Children show innocence, adults demonstrate vulnerability even in areas they show strength. Systems are doorways to implement hidden inhuman acts. People get weak in decision making. Elders hold onto their independence, but feeble is what the abuser seeks of opportunity? And on any day a family member, mother or father, old friend in beginning of a new relationship, a person of interest or a husband or same sex partner can “mentally or physically” increase from 0 to 1,000.

Mental and Physical abuse can make a person feel embarrassed, used and hopeless of being valued. This person feels lost and out of control if not mentally depressed and unnoticed in the eyes of their family and peers. Small children act out and seek affection and attention especially in environments that demonstrate unequal foundations. When someone has hurt you and tells you it’s ok. I love you and don’t leave I will change or stay for the family. If you are hurting in any way today; ask yourself the question what is making me stay and do I love “myself” enough to walk away; without taking one thing?

I lived this story as a small child. I myself covered the scars and sheltered my mother with intense love. It was "her will" to survive that kept her children alive. So the trauma did heal overtime. We accepted there was nothing we could have changed about ourselves or we did wrong. Unfortunately the abuse could occur at anytime. And one day did "take time" to replace the value back in ourselves.   

NAUGHTY BEHAVIOR

If you have ever experienced pain in your life. Seen a few things that changed your life. Eventually you will settle for closer to nothing in this life.

Is it possible for one human being to be the head of his or her house for a lifetime, and if not then who is matured next in line to pick up the load while there is still time?

If people seek to do whatever they want in this life; eventually time will teach us in our GOOD or NAUGHTY BEHAVIORS; why.

On Friday (May 5), in a signing statement surrounding the $1.1 trillion government spending bill, the president singled out the Historically Black College and University Capital Financing Program as something that allocates “benefits on the basis of race, ethnicity, and gender.” And the next generation of HBCU recipients will do what in regards to finance programs? Some people may not understand in comprehension of what is not clearly stated.

A young lady met a gentleman online to spend some quality time. Little did she know her face would make the story line; because of this man’s NAUGHTY NATURE.  

Who is going to save us from ourselves? If we have not managed to figure out what is going around the world.

Who is to say a bad boy only does ruthless things and looks a certain way. Have we not digested around the globe; how progression in race is growing out of control?

Who is to say a bad girl has to physically fight to eat? It seems as if men and woman or now the prey. So who are the real hunters in today?

Who is to say Dating sites, Strip Club or The Gentlemen’s Club caters to a certain class in audience? Is it not true we’re all human beings seeking to fill our fantasy of what we hide from others to judge in what they see?

Who can say that “Naughty” behavior is the act that is frowned upon in any race; but not forbidden in any human acts of violence and sex? Who can confess that the dollar bill has been spent in frivolous ways, but not denied in the investment of inhuman ways?

Who will tell the truth that every medical prescription approved by the FDA; will heal every patient who seeks a resolution in life’s altering movements?

Who does not believe in a higher power if not in themselves; or have we ever taken ACCOUNTABILITY of how we seek to possess a measure of control not in ourselves. But other people.

Why are human beings not satisfied more than half of the time? Have we evaluated our naughty behavior, maybe then we’ll find out why.

LOST & FOUND

Since "Lost" was popular in the beginning. I decided this blog would compliment the ending.

I believe that “internal happiness” is how you feel about yourself. And “external happiness” is the extension of how being with another person makes you feel. 

When life happens big or small; it does not consider who we are. Female or males were all "wired" 2 different ways. So yes we’re bound to see things differently and make many mistakes, along the away.    

Before I begin this selection I want to compliment one man who inspired me this last year. In one valuable lesson of acceptance & respect; people to find  their own happiness in the sacrifices they're willing to make or acceptance of what they are willing take. It's not always about ones self in showing human compassion & understanding another person. Show me a male species who can live without female affection. We all desire one another even where there is no human connection. So we're all destined to learn what is it we really need in a world of men and woman. Now let's proceed so we can consume more human understanding.

A young man ask me in his later 30’s how do you know what you need to be happy? I sincerely used this scenario; have you ever been lonely, alone or in a relationship, or married with kids. The young man said yes” I have been divorced and married again, and sometimes I seek outside only to eventually appreciate "what I found of new happiness in my life". I ask the young man this next question: What is it you can live with or without. Or does this happiness make you feel you're never without. The young man said I see where you are going with this. I then replied "you knew the answer the entire time" and silent as we keep it “we’re all” searching in one another for some human direction. Now figure out for yourself  what is your happiness about.    

It may not always look familiar in change. Just consider for yourself these important warning signs;

·        People talk a good game; misery invites company.

·        Family has your best interest; but they also slickly implement their own great ideas; of who or what “is good or not” in your personal happiness.

·        A friend’s hurt is not always your destiny; just listen to hear if there were any valuable lessons learned & if they are willing to transform or continue to repeat in repetition.

·        Any type of time invested with a female or male creates a bond. And a separation does not grow together when you’re both stretching apart from each other.

In this cartoon Tweety always found a malicious way to keep Sylvester’s focus in place. Poor Sylvester did not stand a chance in keeping up with Tweety’s plot to arouse his focus. In life distractions will grasp our focus, maturity stretches in hardened places, and human beings rattle our emotions. But knowing the difference “empowers” us to find “internal peace of mind” sometimes females and males have to re-evaluate “who am I, today” from yesterday? To figure out what do I really need to be internally happy.

Some people will say I don't need nothing or nobody. But if we really had what we needed in the physical man then why are we still searching in places we're deeply lonely in the flesh.   

2nd Chances

Our previous generations may have suffered in oppression. But the mission was accomplished to show us in compressed times of how to manage what we have by not loosing our "strong will and minds" in days that will pass away. But our works will live on from yesterday.


In the event of what we accept in this life. Sometimes become the things and people we regret in this life. Until we grow up and accept there is a higher power in “wisdom”.

In every age group we are destined to change and deal with a number of things. And the reality in how people think “age is nothing but a number” but maturity will lean us towards the brinks of whom we are. Are become in the reality of life’s possibilities.    

One valuable lesson I’ve become accustom to throughout my years of maturity; is to not envy or enslave my vision in the ends of “Have or Have not’s”.  But to re- evaluate myself at every milestone of age in my life. And at the end of each day I can look into the mirror and see; who really counts in this space I breathe.

Maturity happens at different “stages” of our individual lives. And no matter how intensely we try to attach ourselves to the people we love or interact with. Life will reveal to us: each person is required to initiate their own steps. 

Maturity & growth, situations & problems often occur.  And time will not alarm us to get prepared. In what we should be or have not reached a level to have “LEARNED”. So why is it at this stage of our lives some of us are gravitated to assumption; some people have it all figured out in this life, or some people are perfected. While other people scramble with “WHY” not take an alternate way around. The paths in which our feet our inevitable to stumble on rocks and stones.


Our burdens over power us in thoughts, weight us down in our hearts, trouble our minds from rest, and wobble our fragile legs.  It's obvious in this present generation of all ages. Our actions being demonstrated. Because “we can’t have what we want right away” of what we have not matured in places to appreciate.

Our second chance is RIGHT NOW. The writing is on the WALLS. And if any of us refuses "WISDOM", be prepared to repeat life the same way, on a different day.      

KEY WORD "US"

In trials you find out who you are. In struggles you find out who really has your best interest. So if you’re a force of nature by yourself. Then why not “commit” with another beast of human nature while we have time?

It may not always be the person you expect; to grow with you in a movement. Just be prepared to deal with your and allow them to deal with their “emotions”. Because of one lesson we’ve figured out; is that true love never fades away it just grows in new places.

A male hunts his female prey, so females stay in your lanes; and allow that lion to chase. “You got to own it, if you want it” no matter what “treasures” you seek in this life. Remember everything tarnishes and changes overtime. Regardless of who is involved ‘US” is the key word that keeps our focus alive.  

So have you figured out which lane you’re rolling in. Where “US” is used in context.

Y-RELATIONSHIP

I truly believe if God continues to allow us the time. Some of us will eventually figure out; that true love does not end in disappointments or long term relationships that grow apart for different reasons. But the chemistry in that love allows "US" another chance to love all over again. 

So an old friend calls you from back in the day and would love to catch up on old times. Meet the family or that new person in your life.  And once that meeting has been established and takes place; be prepared to walk in with an open mind and confident SPACE. Because body language speaks louder than words "in any type of relationship" of what someone is feeling, but not said. And this may not have occurred to you in this life. But relationships do take work over time. To shut down any form of speculations we shadow in our minds. And these relations include marriage, shacking, dating or casual conversations.

Time is not objective, it does not argue or process how we relate. Although we play it as if we posses the power to replay it. Something any class of people will either accept or struggle to grasp in an old or new relationship. Where “chemistry” mix or not exist. But don’t get nervous, just be confident in what you bring and both genuinely establish. Even if it has been said “people are for a season” some will stay and some will walk away. Where emotions are broken and ties slowly unwind. So just in case one day an old friend or new one shows up in your life; get some grounding on who you are and be prepared for "expectations" to be met, but not yet established.  

The reality is whomever we fall in love with or for whatever idea we work through passion with; the first the time around will always be a part of your past. But not the end to finding a new future. Issues occur when we have not managed to move past  THE old baggage. So the power of that old chemistry remains buried DEEPLY.