S.O.L

Who said such a relationship can't work; as long as we're paying more attention to who really has the benefits to offer; of worth having if not entertaining.

Life is simple to live, if we remove our ass-ss & arrognace out of the way in it..

So let's keep it real before we mess around; and find out what we really need is what were caught up in; of the real or wrong feelings in. Truth is there is no alternate route around not getting "disappointed & hurt" people play everyday; to get what they want temporarily. And later realize what they are missing in reality; holds the real control in the dynamics of their "investments" when the new is not always the old, and the old is nothing wrong. Depending on the risk & mindset we're playing around with.

Of course every human being has some type of investments with or without someone else who contributes a or non return back. So what is complicated about the math  or years that does not "add up in the choices we make. Of our unfilled appetites.

Lucky you this may not be the case for you, confidence even showed up a FOOL. And humbleness placed that person back in check. What I'm saying is this "manage to stabilize your situation & person, before adding unnecessary ingredients. To fix a temporary addiction. Or either decide if this  new recipe works in the presence of your old or new investment. Reality is any opportunity we seek to embark in old or new will keep us forever searching. Or either

SOL, is where we will always find ourselves; among a world of human confusion.

Play Write

Black love is not shy or does not exist; it’s just not advertised in places people can observe and identify how beautiful it is.

A Black man’s tale; is that he and his woman have been sold throughout time in this white man's world, but the truth is “not a one person” throughout this entire world is free.  So when does the correction begin, and “dysfunction” end? Peace is easy to possess. Change is what we refuse to demonstrate, in reaching that Peaceful state.   

Black beauty is more than Black mandego men and Black woman with big booties; sit down and make time to have a mature soul conversation with either one of them. There are answers to why they are so outspoken in this life.  

Black love starts before our eyes open; with warm morning kisses sweet as honey melon.

Black love ends at night; with enthusiasm & freedom to express in them beyond human judgment.

Black love understands who they are, and what they have been taught to think they are not capable of. Now even those who did not know have heard the real truth, it's on you to grow.

Black love disagreements are not confrontational; just small hurdles to conquer with a conversation.

Black love is more than struggles; it’s more than people place of judgement on what they don’t want to understand.

Black love created together; worldwide inventions, conquered criticism even when they made historic contributions, and replenished the earth with their most wanted; of black children with their athletic abilities, scientific discoveries, dance moves, theatrical plays, musical creativity and mathematical visions where they continue to expand beyond walls built around them.  

Black love is kind and forgiving; it reshapes the colorism in our diversity of segregated behaviors. As long as we respect "black" and not what we leverage out of them to respond back.  

Black love may have their differences among one another, but please never misinterpret it's not a mystery how the power in black love; bonds them back together.

Black love is not imprisoned; prisons & manipulation was intended to confine the black love in every generation. Therefore a Black choice requires more conscious levels of thinking; regarding the elements that open up the doors for assumption to separate them.

Black love has its flaws; but black love is no different than any other color. Black love has a conscious to what we need from one another to heal our families back together.

Shine your light "Black souls", freedom is a state of mind, allow your growth to expand; despite the clear interruptions.

"2"

Are we at a point for a good man or woman in our life, and if you’re in a relationship already do take time to check-in with who you have or either or waiting on; to be a good man or woman.

We talk about cultural differences and relationships; then why not answer these questions we debate about or choose not to figure out. About how colors are not separated in one box.

Why do African American men date outside of their race; then why not ask a causation woman why did she choose him, and why together they made a decision?

Why do African American woman come off confrontational; then why not ask, listen then respect that black woman’s struggles; we all see and act as if were disconnected in every culture?

Why are African American woman in business “judged or idolized” for choosing a side? And why does this woman feel alone without the support of their own?

Why do African American children make up poverty; well let’s reflect back then answer to what was not equal to them; in education, judicial systems, affordable housing and economics that still remain of leverage against them?

Why do black men pay child support for various children outside of marriage; let’s respond to why the black man continues to be paid lessor wages is 2018, whether are not this black man has been honored for receiving a high-school education, work training and college degree. And in regards to those children out of wedlock we would have to research history when the African American man was intentionally separated from his family. The mind and control under power is a nightmare for any person of color.

Why do African American People not have a success rate in marriages; again let’s review all the above answers with the truth. A child learns from what we plant in their heads, and that parent teaches what they have been exposed to pass on; throughout generations.

I have witnessed in my lifetime wisdom from the 1920’s who hung on until this season was over. The plantation was not a fairy tale the stories are real and the seeds in man & woman we continue to struggle with, cohabitate and understand in of our; marriages and divorces, families riches and poverty, education and progress in every stage of development of the segregation that remains of argumentative debates; we created of taking the issues not dealt with out on one another seeking of answers without first, identifying with the internal problem.

At the end of every generation of Mothers & Fathers an abundance of people will turn their face in rage, shrug their weakened shoulders and stagger away from what remains; broken internally. Non answered questions will drive any mind of color insane, lack turns into rage, arrogance brews ignorance, abundance allows controlled access, and seeking reveals the reality of what we are really supplied with; of knowledge, direction but not all planted seeds that grew over generations.

 

Dynamics

Selfish people can also give; with every intention of what they want of you to have.

If we never accept correction; we will assume that in every one of our actions; there is no wrong in  what we do, to one another. Which redirected me in this passage.

One of my readers corrected me on an entry that read "the stories I write are from a place & people I never took for granted , while loving here on earth". I took the correction & researched to see if that passage was meant to be written. This is the correction I shared with confidence " Through mercy we were  birth through a females womb, and because of love my life was filled here on earth with a purpose. And at every end we will rest; in our belief of a creators hand.

I picked up a caller who shared with me; I need a kind word & to see you smile today. I said where you at. The caller said come outside. I said knock on the door " is what a gentleman does" he chuckled and the door bell rung. After brunch we both figured out what his frustration was about "that my silence meant a plan in execution". I communicated "life did not pause time for me to wait on your plan's" we both smiled and made exits. Because my purpose was never filled with the intention of every plan in what other people come up with.

I don't boggle my mind with perfection. We as people on other hand obsess to evaluate it in one another. Which is ok. As long as we all know; without correction there is room for errors to bloom if not exist. And from there we stand a chance to grow from them.

THANK THE PEOPLE OR PERSONS who are watching you with observations, this is how we help one another to grow beyond being misinformed, human perceptions.

Luvuall, & Memore

Purpose

There are days I have little words to say, to pay more attention to my surroundings, where I'm known to share a positive thought where negativity has no choice but to die. And what I use of purpose of my tongue is to get people to talk about the world we have now; and losing it at the same time. Because we do feel in with certain people; defeated, a bruised and abandoned for no reason. 

And I ask again who has not yet suffered from; famine, heartache and pain.Sometimes the truth is what we need to hear, in order for us to see a clear picture of who is causing the confusion. If you love yourself first, no man or woman on earth has the permission to make you feel loved, second. And I know there are few who don't believe; until time will bend you down on your knees. And so what if the color is not respected will be the reason; you miss the message in your season. 

Guessing Game

How can the  3 of us grow. When it was only the 2 of us who took 1 vow; to build.

It's our past that needs to heal the broken in us to live. I know this passage may not sink in deep; for those who live in denial are; debate their strength for weakness. 

We no longer practice what we demand of respect in our relationships. We ourselves demonstrate the disrespect in it. Then irrationally place blame on each other that life dealt us the bad hand. Without first considering  the 3 ways we could of played

1. The things we can control.
2. The things we refuse to let go.
3. The persons & things we value the most.

Just to dream in the neighbors house. We continue to  lose in our own investments for struggling to not do the 3 forms of reasoning. And being rich or poor is no excuse to growing up.

So therefore the promises in the games we play today, somehow will be broken by tomorrow; if our reasoning does not grow up in our thinking attitudes of doing me in what "I wanna do", to live the next day on the same page.

Thot

To honor him; a woman must be happy with her self. To appreciate her; a man must grow up, to lead her.

So if a man or woman should ever consider a human being a Thot; they should also consider in this life it may possibly be; a mother or dad, sister or brother, child, husband or wife.  Due to our idea of not knowing who time will hook us up with in a multitude of ways. Just not always on one titled page.

If we could better understood the importance of "respect" of ourselves, it would return back to us logic in our choices. If we took more time to "evaluate" the Thot of how much we invest in of a moment. Then our accountability we could see of what we do, but not always need.

And the next time we take time to make a Thot of another person in this life, do the math and figure out why; a damaged product does not sit on a shelf long. Until the next shopper swings bye; and sees the value of giving it a try.