Boredom

The state of feeling no enthusiasm. If not a nose dive in low motivation.

Whether are not you are a person that is proactive. Are waiting to be activated. Any state of boredom is dangerous. Why, the mental isolation & physical entrapment will stirrup behaviors that seem not normal. 

If any adult finds themselves in any state of mental & physical confinement. How do you think children & the elderly feel; who are dependant on another person's assistance. That is not self motivated or focused in attention?

The moral of this pasage is during this Pandemic weird behaviors have been demonstrated. People who were busy bodies; were halted in their steps. Shakers & Movers temporarily shut down. Hustlers & Manipulators had more time to conceive another punch line. And home bodies; immediately figured out; confinement is no longer an option. 

We can choose to change our minds, habits & lifestyles. Are wait till time changes US; in the blink of an eye.

Coping w Domestic Violence

The reality is any human being can be a victim; of violence. Age & race is a nonfactor. 

It's the intense need to possess Power to control the feared. This abuser are abusers could be family, father's or even a mother, an aquaintence, neighbor or friend. A stranger or connect ties to an extended relationship with an intention to mentally & physically dismantle a vulnerable person. Including elders & small children. The both of these types consist of A person of insecurities, a person with low self esteem, a person of neglect if not feeling of abandonment. A person with lack of efficiency in money to care for themselves. The abuser & the made victim mentally share in a rare sense of emotional disposition. Are accessibility to an innocence space..

The deepest threat in this violence of acts; is how eveyone at any point of time a direct victim. Including family, communities, co-workers & friends. 

The 911 calls were made; unfortunately help arrived to late. So what can be done to save those who are struggling to find their own; human strengths. And who will get deeper involved where children are unable to make a life urgency call? 

The news flash reports globally; of yellow caution tape is progressing in silence around the world. In every zipcode, age and of every race; of Domestic Violence has caught up to this generation. 

POLY

Polyamory "The practice of engaging in multiple romantic(and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved".

If there is a safe mental place of conversation to introduce or even talk to our own children about sexuality. If not physical emotions of attraction, love, lust and obsession. In both sex of men and woman. The time is here. If not they will hear the information from the world.

So many struggles our young people face. Without the years of experience & knowledge in so many emotional & physical areas of their minds & bodies. So easy to guide them in an unprotected space. Before they have to learn life is not a game. Where people will play on their minds due to misguided information, for their eagerness to experience areas that are  evident of their own vulnerabilities. 

Real people in this life; struggle to stay in love, deny themselves to find someone to love and loose their minds for not knowing how to love themselves. While the entire time children are born out of love, in love if not left for no love. As some people in the world; sit back & watch for the opportunities to educate others on their idea desires if not experience in knowledge. Are reference the biblical scriptures; of new & old history.

Nobody really wants to tell. Are hear the truth. For everyone is not willing to listen. To the why. Living is a Gift from God. It's the journey; endured over time. When life test; has it's pivotal levels of stress.

Grief

The perception is that; you cannot survive mentally in it. The reality is struggles exist to strengthen us. 

The sadness about death is this; watching the living struggle to find a peace of mind & happiness in this life. It's as if we live in a world of the walking dead. And the good news is the demised can now find eternal rest; from chaotic people & personal situations where the battles were no longer a challenge.

Whether it's today are tomorrow. Make peace & plans to enjoy the time on this earth; you, we are us still have. 

In loving memories of my son..

Back Dooring

Where there are options & doors, also is decisions that will be made. Now whether these decisions are conducive to ourselves are offensive to someone else; these decision's will depend on the choices you make.

Ladies, in the heat of a moment; select wisely.

Men, in a moment of heated anger;  take a moment to focus.

To the both of you; during a separation; choose the doors you enter through & exit wisely. 

The decisions with whom we make; often destroy the doors we open, close if not break; down in.

Suicide

On this Blog is a Title "Bridges". And if you reserve a moment to spare cross this bridge when u get there.

The news reported another suicide. This time a friend was left speechless. The race, age & gender was insignificant. The zip code are social status irrelevant. As communities stand in the streets; appeared in disarray. The families left behind speechless. And those innocent children glare with tears in their eyes. 

If you can remember a day, or even in this a moment a Bridge u stood before in configuration to cross. A Bridge boarded with splinters, nails, debree & broken along the way. A bridge you analyzed overtime by yourself. This Bridge you saw to only cross alone. 

I will admit for every Bridge we consider to cross. There is a moment we need to consider of something's in ourselves. 

1. What is it that is broken inside.

2. Why do I feel the need to cross this bridge alone.

3. Who did I not give a chance; to hold my heart in their hands. 

4. Who can love me better than myself & God.

And if you are not a believer. Then ask yourself for All the Bridges I crossed with man, not God. How is it on this Bridge I feel like giving up to cross?

I buried my only son. And if I can speak it out loud; to heal s1 else struggling to exhale. I was separated from my gc for petty things we still got room to grow; but if I can share how it humbled me in how not to be moved towards a bitter mood. I buried several of my close family members; and If I can share how it is I rise up everday with joy in my heart. I cross several Bridges on This Platform of my Blog. I continue to encounter hardships; life are in God's Holy Word did not exempt any man. To a promise it would be easy. I refuse to be apologetic for finding my purpose, will & strength. On Bridges of life & experiences in how a few people left me hanging in life. Now struggling. In places I remembered who I belong too. And how to give a GOOD FIGHT in All I pray before I do anything else...

Today, give yourself; a second chance to FIGHT. At that Bridge you face. It could be the same Bridge some People, person are in humanity may not find the strength to cross. 

Child Tax Care Credit

The approval is confirmed. But remember you must qualify; first. Research on IRS.Gov for 2019-2020 returns. 

This is the 4th round of payouts. If you have managed to survive financially in this transition within Covid-19. Do not get relaxed The Biden administration was resilient in getting this Bill passed. And money does not have roots. So once it's gone. You will resume; to managing again with what you either take inventory to save. Are maintain the support you heavyly depend on. People, family & friends included. Somewhere we All have sacrificed to help one another; in reaching a point so others figure out the real math to help themselves.

I heard a leader speak this week and shared "you can educate us the people, however people will continue to make their own choices".