Grief

Grief, no matter how our love one's departed this life. Remember, those times they needed that well deserved rest. Well, one day God knew their precious bodies needed it.

As we approach the Holidays end. And prepare to enter into a New Year. It's ok to love on ourselves, and sometimes  silence; allow's the mind to find clarity in comfort. But let's not forget that family and close friends who are grieving with us.

Remember the reason for this season. It was love that brought us together in this life. And love will meet us all, after the Grief is ended.

Grief has it's own process, time and plan. Grief appears in several stages. But consider we're not all expressive about our emotions. So, don't feel overwhelmed about how other's might appear; to feel lesser than more of an emotional connection.

1. Shock

2. Denial 

3. Depression

4. Blame

5. Anger

6. Bargaining stage of the; Anticipatory .

Last step is; the acceptance and hope. And believe it or not the Grief ministry, counseling and support is even more affective. If not attempting to process in Grief; individually. Grief teaches; our finished business on earth. was really fulfilled before we were called in our mother's womb. And in a father's heart.

Often it's hard to accept in this life; how we are dying in the land of the living. As our love one's are at comfort in rest. This place of peace of mind, for eternity. If only we could just "Believe".

Beloved "1991-2020, 8:15am". Our ❤️ is forever .

Curl

There is two types of human energy "good & bad, positive and negative". And the reality is everything or person's is destined to change. So what is the secret to "why not speak on it". In the world we chatter about any, everbody & everything. And in every environment of questioning the behavior, the type and who was the sacrifice. Whether the behavior's is a Practice, Cult, Rebellion or Religious belief. The reality is in every inhuman act; a type of evil exist, symbolized, motivated & with the direct intention.

The history of mankind's existence is written. And we know the world has differences of opinions. Regarding Religion, Religious beliefs and finally "sacrificing".

What is alluring is the word "money", and "teachings". What is addictive,? over indulgence in "drug's, alcohol and sometimes each other". What is attracting in the world? each other's "validation". What is sought of each other is "love". What is a life struggle?  finding in one's self "self love". So, yes it happens in all ages.

As we watch on platforms and exchange "conversations". Either you, us are them "agree, if not disagree", about the type of physical interactions we are caught in of Cohabitation. And the actual types of direct communications. 

In life comes a moment, silence is the most Powerful weapon. To tone down the audiences, speculators, watchers and the "perception". Because no one really knows from the outside looking in; what is the motive if not real intention. However, someone is aware of what is being "Gas lighted, educated and communicated", to each other. Lead are follower.

Society, is the makeup of all mankind. It's our division of the behavior in our "Good & Bad" actions and attractions; demonstrated. And decision making is a combination of collaborations, negotiations, followed by, if not excepting of.

To think for yourself, is a challenge sometimes. No one has all the real answers. But allowing other's to think for us; is mental castration .

So we are left probing each other's minds. Digging for information. Investing human time to configure out; how much information has surfaced to the Top.

History of personal experiences in any age of children, young adults and the old. has not changed many psychologically.  it's whether we agree independently are collectively. about the Red flags, we witness in the physical. But in the environment in which the act takes place. Will expose the rhetorical history. 

It appears spirituality & the practices and human beliefs is a sensitive topic. Just recall Sin and the way we cohabitate, existed over generations. Is when Grace & Mercy stepped in, and ask for the accountability; in mandkind's Sin.

Charges

The next time you are out, take a moment to grab those necessary receipts and essentials. And don't forget to follow-up on those pending charges.

Around January of every new year. There is excitement, tension if not anxiety in the air. Why, it's income tax time. And either we're expected to; cutback on our luxuries, payback our debtors. If not just, call it even.

It's not uncommon we're in a hurry, to get to the next destination in life. The reality is , who does not have an agenda & priorities. Honestly, it's the small details we honestly, if not moving sporadically "miss". That will set us back. All due to not being alert, focus and aware.

Timestamps, dates, collaborations, routes and locations. ask this question 'if I took a moment to breathe, exhale and recount' those final footsteps.

Personal experience teaches many lessons. If you're willing to learn. And it's unfortunate there is these 'human attitudes, that separate us, whomever if not them'. for in every business opportunity, decisions to be  attendance, work or class, if not slacking to do a home project. Are for whatever life has instore for 'us, you and them'. Did you know we can train each other to function in a 'lazy state of mindset'.

Age is factored. Where Time is either our greatest commodity. If not our greatest nemesis. In repeating the "repetition".

Fluids

The gift of life is a blessing; thank goodness for the children. And why, is love essential. In our human emotions is this universal love language's; we shift. Of this magnet of Human vs. Human in attractions. 

So, why is this statement significant. Well, let's do the math. Children were conceived where the two of opposites that attract. And one day we will all travel a path; on a journey exploring each other, sometimes before even exploring ourselves. 

I heard a child speak to another "everybody, has a mother and father". And in observation of their communication in interactions and physical expressions. We can learn from a child, as an adult. Of what we are communicating to them; of ourselves.

There is an old cliché  "grandchildren is a blessing, not a responsibility". Well, it depends on our love language and communication. And what is passed down to the children. To later be expected; of a human expectation(accountability, and knowledge that stems from life experiences & guidance). 

Relationship experts, establish platforms for people in search of "companionship", marry couple's its not rare they seek counseling outside of their matrimonial vows. And in cohabitations are  established relationships, even single; people do struggle with finding balance in real life. could it be safe to say "progression really means, work in our individual selves". Until we communicate how to express our language's to working with each other.

For generations males have  expressed their love language through romantic gestures and conversations. Vice versa the female has allured the male with physical attributes & toned conversations. 

Who has not experienced an explosive emotion of human attraction? It's inevitable, the law of natural existence in this body we call skin. Again, what does this statement reference? Without each other's love language and contributions of our physical interactions & emotions. In the preservation of life we would search to find in each other, outside of our own human natures; the "acceptance", the "affection" if not the "validation". We need one another to survive..

Emotions, we all possess the human ability to see,touch, taste and hear. Then what is self love, self preservation. If we have not experienced enough in ourselves. To bond in love language's; with someone else?

Protocol

The "Process", whether we agree to disagree are not. The description reads for all people "subsidized relief to supplement a "temporary" economic relief. If the debate is ongoing about who of us are them is configuring this a 'legacy plan" for our children's future generations. For many  food through foodstamps. Is used to cover this basic human need in anytype of financial hardship are physical impaired disabilities. And let's be clear about the credentials to meet the fine print of from the requestor. "low income families, is not exempt in any race of person's seeking humanitarian aid. But if we were to historically reference the poverty lines. For every statistic; real people is the evidence reported of all people. In all nations of man. Cleary there is history over mankind of hardships. War's that create catastrophic environments. Incarceration is not rehabilitation for any state of well being. But neither is homicides that destroys families, future growth in economics for the restoration in those communities of recorded and witnessed of rethorical violence. where the argument is the state and conditions of "indigenous population", but if we research around the world, the sea saw is flipping upside down. there is also a history of "economic wealth". so how can people grow economically where there is a history of division between indigenous, incarceration, education and wealth, around politics & accessibility to economic growth. 

Whether people eat are starve. Children is the outcome of what turns the conversation towards any platform with "outrage, cries if not a long term resolution about this word. Behind this word "indigenous". Is real people of all colors not discriminatory, just categorized. So it's entertained to blow the flame towards to who chose a political vote. If not the state of the condition of  in every culture. 

In sociology it teaches diversity in economic statuses, environment, society and groups. And in psychology  it teaches behaviors. Again, knowledge is a state of understanding that is not discriminatory on who elevates are progresses at any pace.

These "systems were systematically designed by our forefathers. In it's own algorithm for the people by the people". However, society has the acknowledgement in determining "how the system benefits them". The flip side is  "the system is rhetorical information of recorded history of whomever utilizes it". Even in other countries people makeup mankind. So now the question is "who holds accountability" of the real statistics; around the world. 

People are human beings. And wether we are ,"projected to perform, exempt if not exempt. We are the human race on record in the systems", the reality is for every birth on earth. A system was created by the people, for the people". Of projections, rational's and statistics. 

Basic needs is for human survival, so how can a human justify what another human can lack, of a human need. To fully survive. Without acknowledging what is accessible are not to cure or meet the "temporary", assistance.

Money is raw tender. Assets can be converted into raw tender. Land deeds is ownership in history recordings, earth is not recorded as a surveyed property. Life is this space of; the inevitable. Around circumstances that result into a state of human existence. So  taking inventory, is reasoning to question; of what we are "approved of. If not denied", by whom is going to later judge; accross the boarders and fine printed lines.

Holiday's

As we approach Christmas. And ending of this year, 2022. With gifts, egg nog; sometime spiked. as we listen or sing to music collaborations, laughter, tears and so much peace in sharing another holiday with cheer. Remember to take a moment in silence. To honor our angels who are now resting in peace this Holiday. For their seats will appear to be empty. And our hearts may feel faint. Remember their spirit lives within us and around us; in the living, for eternity. 

As we gather around the Christmas decor, to unwrap those gifts, to plant another kiss under the mistle toe. Also, remember those tables that remain empty, the laughter that no longer echoes of children and youth. In those homes of mom's and dads. In all communities of grandparents uncle's and aunts. To families around the world. Where the sounds of cheer and music is silent; if not softly heard; dimly in the background..

Greatful, greatful! No matter what life"s course. Thankful for it because of life a Savior born; we can sing or say. If not pray; I am grateful for every moment in this life. To have taken the opportunity to appreciate, Time.

The Proposal

The Proposal; could be presented in a multitude of ways. And limiting the quality of it in a box. Limits the quality of how or what it might be or been of a lifetime investment.The question is will you, either myself are even them; accept are deny it?

Knowledge is Power, so why not sit back and listen..Homage to a Queen      -Aretha Franklin.

If magic truly existed; our predictions could of been resolved. In a life we, us are them, count or exclude the possibility or impossibility; out.

If everyone or everything remain the same in this life; it would be fair to assume we or the things is like a tree. It only grows so Tall but eventually it reaches it's individual growing capacity; from the roots, rooted in the ground.

The Proposal still awaits. And the rolls do flip. In Time that has progressed. And why PEOPLE do own accountability for themselves; in changing their minds. With the wind that flows in silence. And it's in the history that's written; from every beginning. To a final ending.