To write this dialogue. I did not write from a personal life in marriage experience. But from a matured mindset in knowing as a human being anytype of change in ingredients; will determine if our tastebuds adjust. Are our human natures will still align for each other, even more where children are involved.
One day God saw man needed; human companionship. And it's not debateable, either we fall short if not stand tall of meeting the expectations we place on each other. Then believe with or without God; the Vows we made could last without adjusting to change. Of the commitment to each other through sickness and health. Poverty & Wealth; forever. Unfortunately time changes all of US. And marriage is not every human story; after anytype of cohabitation resulting in a separation.
Once we procreate together in this life. We are destined to birth offsprings; we just can't mentally walk away from. And deny of ourselves or each other a sole interest sought by a paternal & maternal bloodlines.
At some point in life; as human beings filled with emotions; we, us are them found ourselves; caught up mentally. Sometimes the scenario is after the physical. In which we could not deny ourselves. Of 1 human need; to be "desired".
So, how do we judge with no dissertation of each other's faults. When we once said suggested we knew more about each other, than we learned individually about ourselves. To acknowledge why did we end up loving each other. And taking the accountability in any relationship to stand the test of time; a lifetime of work is to be expected & required.
Sons, figuring out forever; really means "I need more time to figure out; myself in this life of pressure, self-care and family. Therefore young women if know one has shared the truth about "Love it's a two way expression". And In reality we in humanity will never cease in struggling to genuinely work it out; among each other.