Are
we at a point for a good man or woman in our life, and if you’re in a relationship
already do take time to check-in with who you have or either or waiting on; to
be a good man or woman.
We talk about cultural differences and relationships; then why not answer these questions we debate about or choose not to figure out. About how colors are not separated in one box.
Why
do African American men date outside of their race; then why not ask a causation
woman why did she choose him, and why together they made a decision?
Why
do African American woman come off confrontational; then why not ask, listen then
respect that black woman’s struggles; we all see and act as if were
disconnected in every culture?
Why
are African American woman in business “judged or idolized” for choosing a
side? And why does this woman feel alone without the support of their own?
Why
do African American children make up poverty; well let’s reflect back then
answer to what was not equal to them; in education, judicial systems, affordable
housing and economics that still remain of leverage against them?
Why
do black men pay child support for various children outside of marriage; let’s
respond to why the black man continues to be paid lessor wages is 2018, whether are not this
black man has been honored for receiving a high-school education, work training and college degree. And in regards to those children out of wedlock we would have to
research history when the African American man was intentionally separated from
his family. The mind and control under power is a nightmare for any person of color.
Why
do African American People not have a success rate in marriages; again let’s
review all the above answers with the truth. A child learns from what we plant
in their heads, and that parent teaches what they have been exposed to pass on; throughout generations.
I have
witnessed in my lifetime wisdom from the 1920’s
who hung on until this season was over. The plantation was not a fairy tale the
stories are real and the seeds in man & woman we continue to struggle with,
cohabitate and understand in of our; marriages and divorces, families riches
and poverty, education and progress in every stage of development of the segregation
that remains of argumentative debates; we created of taking the issues not dealt with out on one another seeking
of answers without first, identifying with the internal problem.
At the end of every generation of Mothers & Fathers an
abundance of people will turn their face in rage, shrug their weakened shoulders and stagger away from what remains; broken internally. Non answered questions will drive any mind of color insane, lack turns into rage,
arrogance brews ignorance, abundance allows controlled access, and seeking
reveals the reality of what we are really supplied with; of knowledge,
direction but not all planted seeds that grew over generations.
