To all my young and adult parents around the world we have a
story to tell. And before we begin this passage, we need to establish a mutual
understanding. Of why certain people are required to get involved and being
“noisy” is not exempt from being a choice when there are "small
children" involved. Why, because what some people in society have
become accustomed to; is in my house it's ran by my rules. Therefore acceptance
of whatever is happening behind closed doors carries a "big risk" in
caring for the best interest of these kids.
It's happening in
every household rich and poor around the globe. Children are being neglected
and going unprotected. But listen carefully to what is a reality in this; some
people are creating a solid environment with what they have. And that does
not mean they don't love their kids. Some people have open door policies, so
there children are becoming an "access" to prey. Where people and their emotions run high in a
space where there is a ratio of adults involved; the understanding gets really
small, because dealing with people that refuse taking on accountability, will
only destroy a relationship behind “kids”. And some partners and parents are
afraid to lose that "dysfunctional cycle" in this relationship. And
this is where the children pay a price, for having arrogance in their
lives.
A young engineer applied his logic to a theory I had. It referenced balance. And if people are made up of "good & bad" maybe there balance does not exist in humanism. I immediately commended his logic. But the truth is in order for humanism to exist; we have no choice but to find a balance.
