To all my ladies and gents, let's chill and chat. It has come
to a full circle that women and girls continue to seek more understanding from boys
to men. So before we all begin let’s clear out attitudes and remove the egos. In order for a woman to
follow this man’s lead; she and he must have their own sense “of being, if not some direction”.
I spoke with several classes of men. And finally I walked
away with a better understanding of why some men prefer options, while others are
making choices.
A man has options in what he wants and only takes whatever you’re
willing to give. But a man and boy will work for what is not easy to have. A
man needs to be heard and not assessed. A boy seeks direction. A man needs to know
that you have concrete requirements. A boy likes to experiment. A man does not
require two leaders in the household. A boy needs “role models”. A man needs women to know that an ambitious man has it under, if not full control. A boy requires
more time to learn, what he has yet to experience.
A man requires a partner and you may not always be on the
same page. A boy requires compassion but be aware if mommie and daddy were not
in the picture. Some men love to know they own or have a woman who can stand
in. Some boys lack respect so you may not get it. Some men automatically assume all women are desperate and vulnerable when love is involved, and some men become too comfortable and arrogant with what is in
between they’re legs. A boy will relate to what is brought to his attention; not
what is never mentioned. And this is where the Merry-Goes-Round.
You can be with a man for years, live as domestic partners
but never marry, while years will pass bye and the escalation of expectations will
rise. Because of what has been an agreement for a period of time; an establishment
which is open for options.
A man will never make drastic or changes overnight. Men do
hide their emotions inside. And there is a few who are most likely to reveal
them to you. Boys and men take notes from the first approach of how a woman or
girl carries her-self. And what will this woman allow to be compromised of
herself.
Men do love from their hearts when it comes to performing domestics. Now pay attention too if you’re being a mother to those kids, executing domestics on que and an over-time lover in between everything. With the exception of a certain class of women who replace the sex for what they lack until this man can no longer stand it. And young girls please do not take this type of woman's approach because a boy needs more time to appreciate you down the line.
Committed
men are more focused. They are seeking attributes that are similar to motherly
roots. So remember we all have a weakness. And sometimes temptations are
destined to make real and false accusations.
You will never know all of a man’s truth. Unless he feels
there is a grave necessity in telling you. So young girls and ladies think
about it again; what it is you need to share and what are your expectations of
having this man. Now process the fact; that some boys and men are capable of fulfilling
what is between your trembling legs. But not all boys and men are capable of delivering emotional
and spiritual connections outside of the bed, simply because men are wired different
than women. And packaged with
different expectations.
