Good morning to All; grandchildren around the world. Including my own..
We know the pandemic is causing weird behavior. Because we all are looking like aliens. But rest assure you will soon enough; return back into our arms. And maybe some grandparents are ok with the separation or others not. Its depends on the circumstances just keep praying & working. God knew the reasoning in why people change over-time.
Most than often life happens and people break; in a shift that takes place in the atmosphere. Where relationships grow apart for little petty reasons and childesh communucations in all the adults. And more than often children are extracted from the love of those willing grandparents who have been with them since the day they arrived outside of that mothers womb; and a father who still is or the man who accepted the responsibilities.
And what I mean is this; parents make up two people who cohabitated to makeup the bloodline of their children. And in the event the family is blended; there is the makeup of two sides or multiple lines of blood grandparents. But when life happens people get mean & spiteful over selfish issues. The children are wounded only because of the grandparents who chose to be in their lives are now struggling to deal with unhealthy issues of a multitude with people who decided to get involved.
Again; Grandparents rights by law is an option to form an effective alternative of establishing continuation of the children's relationship with their bloodline of grandparents. And for each circumstances is different if you are seeking the guardianship. Just ensure the intention is right. For the interest of these grand children or child. And the motive is not to gain money for an independent lifestyle on ether either side. Real Love cannot be falsified by intervention of occupying these children in time with random family members. Or presented with stories of holes around the footprints over time. This is not a competion. These are lives that will be impacted based on our unity & channels of effective communications.
For the record life did not come with a manual it was meant that we learn from one another. And our mistakes if not reckless choices in our behaviors. And for better understanding where in the bible were we promised in humanity there will be no hardships. And if it takes a village to raise our children then why are they being harbored from the truth of those who always; will ensure to never miss an opportunity to be in their lives are receive a call. Where there are text, curse words and voicemails? Because they maybe tiny today, or to young to tell you their hurts & broken feelings. But tomorrow it will be the pain these children will show you in rebellious ways. For their heartache that has aged.
A grandparents love is priceless; for those adults who have come to reasoning by dealing with the personal issues. And for those grandparents who had to accept change is required on both sides. Life & time only allows us to be "once an adult and twice a child" so when do the children get a chance to breathe & have a peace of mind? But if you missed out on an opportunity to teach, share and love on these grandbabies there is a chance you will leave this world with some or no regrets. And not every grandparent is going to pay for another who chose to stay away.
Why is this a true statement; allow us to uncover the process of life where the pains reflects who is bringing it upon themselves; for some people cannot conceive children who would be loving parents, some people resent their own children because they were seeking love; before knowing it in themselves. And others wanted this family they could not have in their own personal lives. Or some people are selfish enough to pick & choose who I will love for you. If not realizing the reason why grandparents who fight for these grandchildren had choices to make; for what they see in the absence of a parent or the unnecessary struggles an entire family will deny of their own truth. Over a generation of lies. As those adults who remain comfortable as those babies lack in the knowledge to know & be loved by their other people. That are fighting for them.
Arguments & belittling will not accomplish healing. Communication & work will create a solid foundation. In the end these kids will know & feel they were loved; by all their people who did not give up.
