Some couples believe that it's a way to bond and find out what this relationship may or not be about. Some couples believe it's financially accommodating. Some couples believe it's one step closer to getting married. Some couples believe it's healthy for the children to see; mommy and daddy. But what happens when life takes it's toll. And things that were or not properly planned go from "right to wrong".
What happens once this relationship takes a twist and one or the other feels neglected or contentment.
What happens when the other stays out late. But pays the bills on time. To keep you quite by satisfying the bottom line.
What happens in a blended relationship where the children are not your biological kids and one person does not mind to show it. By sharing more than communication with the ex for the sake of kids.
What happens when one person matures and the other person remains unchanged throughout the relationship. But now that time has been invested no one can walk away empty handed.
What happens once the debt has been accrued and only one person sacrifices to make any moves. Remember there are usually children involved where some grown-ups can't figure out how to get pass and sacrifice what should come next to last. Which is finding love in someone else" before caring for their children and self.
What happens when the in laws interfere in an abusive relationship. But one person can't seem to walk away even for the children sake.
What happens when you decide to stay and continue growing this unorganized family. And the reason why we should ask ourselves is shacking the remedy or a "ban aid to secure our selfish wants not necessary need" to layaway some type of security.
So the question is why do some people engage or entertain with other people who live under a shared roof. That may or not be committed to the person they already lay next too.
A young man ask me today "is it ok for me to feel and move out temporarily to have my own space". I said listen closely to what I'm about to say " what can you live with", "what can't you live without" or what or you willing to throw away". The young man said I just need some space away from my old lady and her kids. And I proceeded to say " is it you who needs to see what is out there of other opportunities" and before you answer with the decision that is on your mind think what you have invested with this woman and her children over time.
The reality is we as a people are not so different. We create some similar situations. And that is why people are going to do whatever suites them in this life. So the real problem is we don't know ourselves until we figure it out through someone else.
What happens once this relationship takes a twist and one or the other feels neglected or contentment.
What happens when the other stays out late. But pays the bills on time. To keep you quite by satisfying the bottom line.
What happens in a blended relationship where the children are not your biological kids and one person does not mind to show it. By sharing more than communication with the ex for the sake of kids.
What happens when one person matures and the other person remains unchanged throughout the relationship. But now that time has been invested no one can walk away empty handed.
What happens once the debt has been accrued and only one person sacrifices to make any moves. Remember there are usually children involved where some grown-ups can't figure out how to get pass and sacrifice what should come next to last. Which is finding love in someone else" before caring for their children and self.
What happens when the in laws interfere in an abusive relationship. But one person can't seem to walk away even for the children sake.
What happens when you decide to stay and continue growing this unorganized family. And the reason why we should ask ourselves is shacking the remedy or a "ban aid to secure our selfish wants not necessary need" to layaway some type of security.
What happens
when all you need is more tenderness BUT you lack the patience with the person you shack with who no
longer for-fills your ambitions. Because there is a real reason for Sexual
Transmitted Diseases.
And the reason why Shacking was the topic of today. Is because so many people live inside other peoples fantasy and not their own reality.So the question is why do some people engage or entertain with other people who live under a shared roof. That may or not be committed to the person they already lay next too.
A young man ask me today "is it ok for me to feel and move out temporarily to have my own space". I said listen closely to what I'm about to say " what can you live with", "what can't you live without" or what or you willing to throw away". The young man said I just need some space away from my old lady and her kids. And I proceeded to say " is it you who needs to see what is out there of other opportunities" and before you answer with the decision that is on your mind think what you have invested with this woman and her children over time.
The reality is we as a people are not so different. We create some similar situations. And that is why people are going to do whatever suites them in this life. So the real problem is we don't know ourselves until we figure it out through someone else.
