Child Poverty
Status is what we check; it’s in adult attitudes that set our children back. Rich or poor we have some growing up to do. Because there are good mothers and fathers around the world. Blended families continue to keep those children in sync. So at the end of the day? they won't grow up knowing what they could of been taught in better understanding.
Where there is poverty there is systemic mind set. But
listen, if you see a brother or sister on the street. It does not mean that they are the stem of it.
Where there is a blend in families. And often there is a
single parent household where poverty is stricken the extent of low income and under developed housing. It
does not always mean the family is not supportive of that mother and father who chose to try harder in bettering their situation. If not harbor those children. Children need stability.
When a child is separated from their family, are a parent it affects the
children more than the adults mentally. Now think about that matriarch of a parent whose life is gone.Why, because the child is the one depending on family to teach them values, morals and beliefs. And often we see in this situation of poverty; drugs, alcoholism, prostitution, divorce, and domestic violence in any class of families. It
does not mean this child has to be a statistic of the drama. This child’s life depends on breaking
the generational cycles.
Children are vulnerable when they cannot protect
themselves. And we all love the children. But there is a bridge where some adults
are creating the poverty mentality. Based upon their feelings of angered aggression, spite, abandonment and cheated out of a life they may have hindered of having, themselves. And when the extended family gets
involved, it creates animosity because of the adults who make the personal issues of what they have not yet to deal with in themselves.
The records show, a mother will curse and beat her child.
And love a man who beats on her, or abandons the family and returns with her
open hands. The records show a female will take from a man to feed another man
while he is incarcerated. The records show any status of woman is not exempt from leveraging her children to feed them all no matter who it comes from. But it does not have to be the
biological father or his family who has been rejected. For this was an opportunity to break the generational cycle.
The records show, a man not being the child's are children"s father will commit and raise the child or children with no reservations. And the woman will
allow this another man to interrupt as he pleases. Without boudaries we create circumstances. And some biological fathers are ok; with another man raising his babies.
The records show a man will sign his own name on the birth
certificate; because this child does not need to deal with the choices some woman
make. Consider the sacrifices a man will make. And who will allow that child to believe this is your paternal daddy. Until one day
this child needs to find his bloodline. Is when the truth will break her or his
heart and he r she will resent this mother if she lied.
The records show the man is doing his part; as the biological
father should. But problem is this man has moved on in his life, and both parents
had more kids. But this father was committed to his. He volunteered his name to
ensure his children would be fed. And in the event a parent dies it’s on that
surviving parent to have put together a plan. This is where families grow up
and do it for the kids involved where its takes a village to raise 1 child, what
happens when you factor in more children with the same mindset of adults.
The moral of this passage is; age is not a factor. When you are grown enough to say these are my children, female or man. You hold full accountability to all involved. If not do it for those children who will grow up in a world that could have been better conditions. Rich or poor. Sometimes our feelings are irrelevant when these children show suffering behind it. In an every changing world.
