There are levels to control.
1. To possess the control of oneself.
2. The anxiety of feeling under control of another person.
And;
3. The influencers of misguided influence; to control a person or persons because of a situation.
Think about the word Control. And how the act itself; benefits if not affects us All around this entire world. Once we choose to accept; how we do not possess the word "ownership"over each other. Even as mother's and father's we are the gatekeepers of each other. Elders and children. Until one day we are no longer in control of each other's personal direction & personal choices. Then why as human beings do we repeat in paying this price. To not control 100% of freewill in our own lives. In a world of human fears, distractions and emotions. This action word called "change", does not discriminate in any race, age or culture in faith. Are non faith. Freewill exist in the entire world of mankind. So who dictates freewill cost money or sacrifice of a freedom to life. Where in our human behaviors we have expressed; to each other passion, compassion, anger and anxiety. Anxiety this intense need to feel needed. If not an aggressive behavior towards each other to sustain control over each other's life.
How is it possible a baby remains a small baby. in the mental capacity and physical appearance through developmental stages. Eventually this baby is destined to mature and develope. In all ages and races of men and women.
In this space called life. We have claimed ownership of each other; with a pen on paper, demands and possessive behaviors. We have sold and purchased each other's freedoms and self identifies. So how is it evitable; all people think mentally and mature the same. Where it's evitable we debate about each other's own moral, values and beliefs; then cohabitate and start relationships, associations and families. It's proven to be inevitable we continue to judge each other. And in times of a life's catastrophes. We need each other in every race of mankind in this life. So can it be possible mankind can exist in 1 world. Of 1 type of people of one mindset? And not struggle with the absence of human diversity and emotions.
Passed down is the bloodlines in generations of mankind. It's the probability in every environment more than often it's the behaviors that remain the same. of what mankind acts out of in our human self's. However, everything or person is destined to feel and experience a personal type of human change. Without each other's human permission; because we were made of flesh and skin. No matter the color we wear.
If there is a possibility a child adapts in any environment of adults. That lack knowledge and destined to face life experiences within a world of each other. It's inevitable there will be a society of balance. We're in humanity we are destined to face life. In which we are fighting one another right now. If not dealing with ourselves in this skin of being human.
A father said to me, "sometimes nothing changes in our situations". I said, we don't all think alike. For me it was my life experience at a young age that changed me in my mental perspective. He glared as I said "people own their accountability to accept; what they choose to or not change in themselves. No human is capable to mentally pay a price. To rescue if not control another human beings; Freewill.
