Happy Birthday

So today I celebrate another milestone in my life. A woman of many titles is the structure that has made me more humble in life. And in those past times where people that I showered with love chose not to love me back; finally today they have learned how to act. Why, because of time that has moved things  around. Such as relationships and understanding why making choices in this life comes with some regrets over time. But I held on through this rocky road called life and that is the symbolic symbol of beauty I posses. When people made their selfish choices "I had no real regrets" of sharing my best.

This year on your Birthday remember to celebrate life and not be discouraged about physical changes, gifts, financial obligations and people who made a choice to enter in or exit out of your life. Because those people choices were made without the idea of you being a necessary part of their plan. In a place where time would remind us all; how to pray, forgive and love beyond the faults. What could of, what would of and should have  been of a past now future relationship.

On this b-day celebrate "You". So  when life alters your plan just remind yourself; there are many paths I could of chosen to take, but instead I chose to live life more abundantly.

Single People & Marriage

I received some calming news today. People are really getting engaged but not to the other people they entertain; temporarily. And the reasoning is simple to see; how a person can lead another by playing on their trust and vulnerability if not lust. So on this journey to finding a soulmate remember this person will either decide to make you their husband or wife. Or this person will show warning signs; hesitation and procrastination not wedding preparations.

I fell in lust one day. I learned what to share in a moment of time. I learned to respect over time "how trust and loyalty to some people, don't mean one thing" is when I  took the quality time to love myself. After foolishly attempting to love everyone else. Then immediately I snatched my heart away from people who made me the example of how "love is just another word spoken everyday" until you express it genuinely.

I witnessed how people either choose young to avoid growing old, or missing out on that baby boy to hold. Or you either marry old to avoid being alone. Or people marry to make a statement. But sometimes people really do take the time to find their soulmates and live a fruitful life.

Everyday I treasure this compliment; why has your heart not been stolen yet". I chuckle and cordially say; over my entire life I made a few mistakes but God had a plan and so did I. By managing to infinitely love so many people at one time. So I was not aware when there was not enough love extended for myself. As I enjoyed loving and pampering everyone else.

A former married man shared with me everyone will not agree of this writing. I responded with this statement "when has man and woman ever equally agreed on all things". Therefore a written life experience can either be someone else's truth because man and woman or destined to decide if they are equally yolked or not in this life.

So before I say yes the first time. I will clarify; that I am destined to be someone's soulmate and not just another wife.

In The Mist of It All

When you are facing emotional moments in your life whether happy or sad. It's ok to take some time to deal with what is on your heart and mind. And in those moments when the world will seem dark and cold; it's only because people and their compassion grow old. Is when you will figure out why religious beliefs is a  personal choice not an immeditae repair. And what this statement says is that; somewhere in our individual live's we must find our own "BALANCE" to survive. Because the truth of the matter is; we live in a world of blended personalities where the heart is not always seeking to spread joy and peace.


I heard a radio personality say "we should be happy just because life chose to give us another day" but the sad part about that statement is; somewhere in humanity we either choose to absorb one anothers infirmities or benefit from our own unhappiness in adjusting unnecessary things. Such as calculating ways to bring one another more sorrow and pain.


In The Mist of It All; find your peaceful space to endure life, happiness and some pain.

Weather Alert

The weather is cold and streets are slick but businesses are still opening for employees and consumers money "Please drive safe" in case the road conditions will not allow the wheels of your vehicle to remain in 1 lane. And for the experienced drivers around the globe; only mother nature really controls how this story goes, so please disregard taking for granted the warning signs and oblige the bill collectors to wait in line. Because life does not allow real people to make arrangement calls.

The weather report sometimes  contradict what is actually going to take place. But heed the message anyway to plan a safer trip accordingly.

One gloomy day people slid into work to commit themselves to other people, working shifts or attempting to pay a debt. But on this particular day the weather man provided an exact forecast; unfortunately several employees did defeat mother natures destiny.

This young lady worked as a temp so being employed was vitally important. Unfortunately there was a delay on her journey when another vehicle stirred into her lane. Immediately red lights arrived at the scene, but this young lady refused to be seen. Because she could not afford to be late for her "first day". She presented a smile but deep inside things were not right. And before the end of the day this lady took a restroom break but never to exit where she went in. Why, because "she died" inside.

The system is calculated so you will pay between the 15th and 30th day; regardless if it's once a month or bi-weekly. Use your mind, time and PTO wisely.

The company message on the website reads for inclement weather conditions please "use your best judgment, but drive safely" slightly conflicting. Ages ago people took pride in working a portion of their lives. Because companies valued their employees lives "back then" not just the company bottom lines. And this scenario will point in one direction of our current times;

If you are not struggling financially; it's a beautiful space to be. But not everyone is exempt from their individual reality, so respect the fact real people do make a significant difference.

Drive cautiously and plan ahead in case of life's emergencies.

Slim Pickens

Remember hearing the 1st impression it is either the best or could be the last? Which is often determined by society and the other is non judgmental attitudes. Who care less about determining whether you fit into the social scene, posses good energy or signs of negativity. My advice would be; stay prepared for everything. Because life is destined to change; where attitudes will either adjust or remain the same.

My big day came and I was prepared to deal with a few things, rationally think through challenging situations, heal from disappointments and walk away from toxic relationships to get better acquainted with myself. And  properly communicate in the corporate world of foreign faces;  Indonesia, Malaysia Philippines, Cairo, China, and Mexico. Were countries that would have only remained a dream. Until I discovered how to brand my contagious personality. That brings me to this theory:

We the people being of the same physical components and senses; collectively if not individually are predestined to be propositioned in this life. And the characteristics we posses will be challenged by other people who exist with their wired  characteristics. And you don't need a college degree to make sense out of a statement that people will either believe, see or disagree.

Therefore never limit your self in faith. To be Slim Pickens on someone elses plate.

Court fees

Outlawed in the U.S.A over 200 years ago. Is when the U.S. Supreme Court expressed "Judges cannot send people to jail, because of their disposition to financially pay court fines". Pay attention closely to how money targets land to implement a term plan.

In the case of Bearden vs. Georgia, which held; that a judge must  consider 1st; if there exist the "ability to pay, but refusal to pay a court debt that exist". It would behoove you to understand legal formation rendered from the judges hand but written in our Constitution. So the format of "willfully" not pay does mean one thing. That people are destined to serve time behind court fines if money is not exchanged, to zero out what remains.
The amount of time spent online should be more productive or else people sabotage their own lives.

Publication information is detrimental to your present situations.   Research law. 

1st Of The Month

A single mother awoke today with a case of some anxiety. A working class household has stretched the limitations of both payroll checks. An elder is laying weak; because they can no longer afford to pay the pharmacy, regardless of medicare or medicaid. And the reason why it's the first of the month and bills must be paid on time. To avoid the rapture of evil economic times where only a fool would think; money can buy everyone and anything.

Unfortunately ordinary people were handpicked and trained to act in vicious ways, depending on the bill due date. And before you adjust your noise and cyclone attitude please grasp the importance of the messages below:
 
We live in a "Right To State" which means any person can be fired, at anytime without "recourse". But in case you are safe; turn away from what affects another person in a more crucial way.

The Koch Brothers have raised an estimated $889 million for the 2016 Presidential race. Now it's your turn to figure out who stands a winning chance "Red or Blue" for another term. If people decide not to stand in line and vote next term.

Once you put up collateral for a bank loan make sure you understand the full payback with interest terms. And just in case you are going to pay late; you better notify the head person on the prerecorded phone line, backed up with an email line. So when this debt is paid in full; you are due back ownership of your initiated collateral. Unless there is a scenario number 2; where overdraft rules is when the bank has allowed you to spend money in which they knew did not exist. Is when that paid in full collateral is now at the mercy of the bottom line list.
The Federal Trade Commission should be your next move to investigate how our Constitutional laws written by legislature will either assist or deflate a alternative plan to payback what should have been originally avoided. Also, check out FTC v. AT&T, LLC "mobile cramming" maybe you have an interest in the future settlement.

The term lease means temporary. And rent is due on the 1st if not the 3rd. The water addendum implies the bill is due 15 days after the rent is paid. Then why is it included on the 1st or 3rd, and on one entire page. If you dare to ask, be prepared, to be referred, to the water company provider in your residential area. And lastly the late fees begin at the end of business day, payment drop box has been sealed, gate card access taken away. But in one year be prepared to be greeted again with a smile and pen. To lock you in once again.
It would behoove you to research the "Tenant's Union".

Single moms understand you are not damaged goods. Because you don't need extra hands in your present situation without a working plan. Instead thank the lord for your kids and the commitment you give. Because welfare is no longer prejudice, against any race of nationality.

Some people love to mock other people who are either clueless, show minimum interest or lack in finances. Some people posses good intentions while other people thrive on power and control to restrain a strong hold.

I mentioned earlier the big 3. So before you reach for lent and in some of our cases that is money already spent; visit the website www.ClarkHoward.com to verify why you are being denied for paid, due or uncleared "credit lines.

Life will set you up for change, logic is crucial, words or prolific, people play mind games and if money is not  the bitch people say it is. Then what really is?