Chatter Box

In life I have "learned through life experience"s" with certain people; to have a limited conversation.

First, reason is this everyone has their own individual perception. if not human intentions. And more than often it's prior to every conversation, that people hold in frustration. Are caveat prior to relate the information.  What stands in between reality is 1 opportunity; to speak out loud. To whom they cannot handle. Are wait face to face; to hear who is talking are silently listening.

Second, reason is because of hidden expectations to answer back to the staged perception. In what some people have already calculated up. what they pick and choose not to hear. But prepared to say. In making a point; or pointless in the types of attempts made.

Third, reasoning is often people don't want  to comprehend to what they should of; but not listened to begin with. In knowing acknowledging is showing accountability. In or what what they initially did.

I admit at times being a chatter box; but what I have learned with People is ; boundaries & limitations. To gear from the unexpected irrational behaviors. If not those spontaneous human reactions. 

In what one or the other person, did or not intend to do. But remain blindsided in what I just said or did to you. To justify Confrontational & Defensive actions. These are two words often used in  Conversations & in Corporate America. But what's not on record as being advocated. Of high level caveat. Is how and when do we as human beings; avoid one or the another. With class or just respect. Of not entertaining each other's; jealousy, envy or straight out story tellings.

Nations

Tell the truth; about why our boys in any race can possibly grow-up to be angry men.

Tell the truth; about what we have, or been not told as little girls once hurt by them. How to unfollow them.

Then allow ourselves to be accountable; for the truth of what we were taught, and act as is we do, or choose not to know.

Anger stems from a traumatic occurrence  in all races of life, which brews overtime.  Hindering our focus, hearts and minds. And then we ask; what is wrong with this generation.

Self confidence; is what has been inbedded in our thinking.

Peace of mind; is a freewill to posses. So why is it that people live as if someone else has a hand on it?

Speed Bumps

Life is filled with speed bumps. And just when you think you have crossed the last one; there awaits more speed bumps.

The moral of this passage is we heard of the journey's taken in this life, some decided to rise above the confusion, while others accepted defeat. To accept settling and live in a state of silent misery.

But in the end, judgment still awaits to address those speed bumps of all people who decided; to either avoid or cross over in this life.

Real Power & Knowledge is possessed in the hands & minds of those who controls of it in him or herself.


A lot will say, it's all about me. Many will believe only what they can hold & see. A masses shall fear what has not revealed to them. And the remainder will fight to not sell out of their own preservation to keep a  peace of mind.

Listen

Breaking Cycles: Listen: My mother text me one night; listen to what your children have to say. Even listen to the little things. So one day when they have bigger t...

Listen

My mother text me one night; listen to what your children have to say. Even listen to the little things. So one day when they have bigger things to share; the trust is there.

I text back to my mother; thank you mom, but our children must never forget there was an age they never knew text existed. And some mothers were always around to listen to their children even when their words were not clear beyond just making sounds.

What is a possibility is this; our children will always be our babies at any age. And when life forces them to make real time choices hopefully our children will turn to us in those moments.

One thing about life is this; on any day, at any moment life it will happen. The question is how prepared are we to face it?  

Hate Crimes

How do we measure the value of another person's life? Is also the same measure we should use to place value on ourselves. And just incase we are not aware of what that measure is; then what is the real issue within one's self to describe the hate in which is inflicted on someone else?

Life is precious. And the next time you consider taking someone else's life think twice about how someone who made a choice; so that you with without hate may have a chance to live a life.

Tomorrow is not promised, but today allows us all the time; to plan for tomorrow filled with precious lives.

Cycles of Life

Seeking a savior. Or is it that we often run from our own truth of a past if not our present lives that we allegedly assume; not every human behavior act is out of context. But yet we are quick to judge one another, without judging ourselves first. And being humored if not affected by the behavior that causes real stress.

If a male or female randomly sends you a sexual pic. Then later text "did you like that? Simply respond back "I would like to see  if you can use your brains" a small price to pay at the end of the day.

If sex is the new trend in making fast money, or expressing our inhibitions for attention, Then what is the inhuman act; that is allegedly being persecuted when reported as a violation to human beings from country to country. A reminder to all races the plantation continues in every generations.

This is not a gain, there are no winners  in a world filled with pain because of the greed that is invested in broken human beings.  

Do not boast about tomorrow, for we are not sure what this day may bring.

Angel L.