To all the young girls & boys around the world listen closely
to the story that is not a tale.
One day you will see how Life will be your greatest mentor and the
reason why is there will be a few struggles you will face; alone. Internally. in this life. And no
matter how mommy or daddy, grandparents or siblings try to protect you. please
understand life comes with minimum directions and many learned lessons.
So you are wondering why me. The answer is; only life knows how
your true story will be go. And be told. And in abusive or sexual situations the adult
stranger, family member or friend will say ''I love you with cuddles and
gifts" in a sympathetic way. But in that moment you may not identify
with what is happening between your legs and body. Just know this when someone touches
you or ask you to do things of our bodies. it’s not ok if mommy & daddy,
grandma or grandpa, uncle & aunt are not around to watch how you're; being played. Are comfortable in playing.
One day a young child innocently played with a familiar face. until
the game changed and this person was no longer the same. So this person with
whom this child trusted betrayed their; friendship now this child feels alone
and brokenhearted. because no one is listening. So what does this child soon to
be a grownup. do when the stranger is really a parent, family member or friend
that in some situations are the predators. And invited guest due to; human choices.
1st priority. Safety.
A child was walking home from school as a stranger approached and
seemed "lost" and within a second this child was gone.
A stranger is not always someone you have never met. A stranger
has a different approach either with both mommy and daddy are not around. Are either of them out trust. Through welcoming into our family.
Safety is to ensure
your smile is not turned upside down. In this world.
And yes, I was that parent. Even after his tiny feet. Out grew my pace. And even now. Although he's resting in heaven. God alway's carefully guided my choices. To watch over the decisions. I would and made; as a mother. Who understands that human sacrifices; come with. Weight. With a peace of mind along the way.
A piece of candy is great. but what about a cavity. What do you mean? If we're offered things we like. What happens when a ride home. Is not mom or dad. But friends who said. It's OK. but remember, who said. What you did not witness of what your parents directly told you. Of "yes, or no". And if anyone hurts you in a bad way and say's "its
ok". immediately ask your parents, auntie or uncles. if this kind of touch
is OK.
But if it is the person's you trust. Stay safe. Unless you can tell the truth.
It takes one second to communicate through texting. It takes
people years to walk away from unhealthy relationships. It takes 5 minutes to
find a date on social media. It takes a
one-time conversation to share our personal information. It takes 8 to 12 hours
in a day to commute back and forth from work.
So why not listen to what our
children have to say. even if it takes 1 moment to hear about; their day!
